Most often men’s problem – what causes premature ejaculation?

Did you know that 30% of men worldwide deal with premature ejaculation? When you really think about it, that number is a bit staggering. Granted, there are many different variables that can often be involved, and more often than not, the biggest issue is that the men who are struggling with premature ejaculation either think there is no solution, or they aren’t comfortable trying to find one themselves. With so many other unfortunate sexual problems and issues today, it’s a shame that premature ejaculation even has to be a concern, but it is for many men, and the main question that comes from men dealing with it is typically the same; what causes premature ejaculation in the first place?


Premature ejaculation can be caused by a number of different factors

Premature ejaculation can be caused by a number of different factors, and all men struggle with it in different ways. First and foremost, sometimes simply age and inexperience come into play. A new sexual partner can also make a difference. If you’re not completely comfortable or confident in what you’re doing, it can easily lead to premature ejaculation, though in these cases, the issue typically goes away with time and experience. If you’ve been struggling with it for awhile, the first thing to consider is a visit to your doctor to make sure there are no other medical issues going on that it could possibly be related to. Depression and anxiety can sometimes be linked to premature ejaculation, or it could simply be something as simple as a change in your diet and exercise routine. Ruling out any medical concerns is always a good place to start, and will at the very least, give you reassurance and peace of mind.

If you find that you’re in good health, the next question to ask yourself is what could be another possibility or cause for your premature ejaculation? Currently, there is no concrete scientific evidence linking one particular cause to premature ejaculation. If you are in a healthy relationship, free of anxiety, depression, or a lack of self-confidence, and have no scarring sexual history, unfortunately, there isn’t much that can be diagnosed when it comes to the exact cause of premature ejaculation. Not only can each man experience it differently, but each cause of it can be entirely different.

While it may be a difficult pill to swallow, knowing you are struggling with something that there is no absolute cause for, there is a lot of hope that comes from something else regarding premature ejaculation: There are solutions for it!


There is no ‘magic pill’ that can fix everything

If you’ve already talked to your doctor, there are instances where actual prescription medication can be selected to help with premature ejaculation, but typically if you were in good health, there is no ‘magic pill’ that can fix everything. There are other, over-the-counter tablets and pills as well, that provide the same effects as prescription medication. In line with both of these are products you can find in pharmacies and especially online, including lotions, gels, creams, etc. Each of these products works a little differently, each might make slightly different claims, but ultimately the end result for all of them is the promise that you will no longer struggle with premature ejaculation.

While some men have had success with these products, the most important thing to understand is how they will affect you, so it’s incredibly important to read labels, do research, and figure out what possible side effects could occur from any product. On the lighter, yet likely frustrating side, some of these products require you to use them hours before you have sex. Others actually require you to use them every single day for any results. Some also don’t promise a designated ‘time’ for how long you might be able to last, and some can unfortunately only decrease sensitivity enough for you to last a few minutes. Or, what might be even worse, some make it nearly impossible to actually enjoy sex, due to the loss of sensitivity.

On the scarier side, some of these products contain substances that can do more harm than good. For instance, many of these products use a substance called Lidocaine, which is typically used as a local anesthetic, and can have a negative reaction to the sensitive skin of the penis. Of course, not all men experience negative side effects from these products, but it is important to be aware of the potential risks.


Pelay – product that may look similar to the creams and gels

Another option is a product that may look similar to the creams and gels above, but it works in a completely different, more effective way. Pelay is a hypoallergenic, dermatologically-tested product that helps to stop premature ejaculation. It consists of the Pelay Gel, and Pelay Applier. When the Gel and Applier are used together, the effects begin to kick in within four minutes – you don’t have to use it every day, or hours before having sex.

The effects of pelay decrease the sensitivity of the penis for up to 45 minutes, so you can last long enough to satisfy your sexual partner’s needs, as well as your own. That’s important – your own needs are met, and you can enjoy the entire sexual experience due to the innovative Pelay Gel, which works as a natural lubricant.

The best thing about, Pelay, however, is that there have been no reported side effects in any of their rigorous testing. There is no Lidocaine in product, and no strange substances that are used as local anesthetics that could have similar consequences. Pelay truly is the ultimate, safe solution for premature ejaculation.

It can be extremely frustrating, not knowing the exact reason premature ejaculation is a problem for some men, and hopefully someday an actual reason can be found. Until then, though there may not be answers to every question, there are solutions to this problem, and if you find yourself struggling with premature ejaculation, take comfort in knowing you’re not alone, and there is help out there to stop the issue entirely, and take control of your sex life once again.